Do You Need To Be Topless?

The most wonderful thing about flirting and seduction is that it doesn't mean you have to be topless. In fact, it has nothing to do with being naked.

Of course if the course of your seduction has led you into the advance stages, you will require a different set of skills which is different, but complimentary to the basic flirting and seduction that you need to possess.

Men needs encouragement too.

• Imagine being tongue tight when a gentleman approach you.
• Imagine getting frustrated when he is shy and you really want him to prod him further but lack the skills and knowledge to lead him to the right direction.

Don't leave what can be controlled or managed to chances.

If you do, you are not living the life you deserve, you are merely allowing life to lead you by the nose.

Would that lead you to a happy and fulfilling life?

If it works for you, go for it.

If it doesn't, take active steps to procure that for yourself.

Meanwhile, do check out Way Back Into Love (WBIL) if you want to enjoy a Happier, Healthier and more SensUal way of life!

Let Your Body Talk

Below is a simple and wonderful video to give you effective tips on flirting



Special thanks to http://www.howcast.com/

So you think that it is not necessary to learn body language skills?

Just honesty and leading a diligent life is good enough.

I feel sorry for you if this is really how you feel. You don't need to exaggerate to become sluttish and be of bad taste.

But what you can do is to develop a better understanding of how your body works and how people tends to interpret based on your behavior.

Whether you like it or not, your body is gonna talk anyway. It's instinctive. The million dollar question is whether it speaks FOR you or AGAINST you.

You have a body and there is no changing of that fact. So long as you possess a physical body, I guarantee you it is going to talk to everyone you come in contact with.

So, decide if your body is gonna be your friend or your foe.

Work it baby and leave a favorable impression in his mind

Otherwise, oh well, good luck to your honest and diligent life.

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Jennifer Love Hewitt: I Wish I Stayed Nude From Age 12-28

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,407302,00.html

Is that hot or what!!



Ladies, whatever you do, don't share this regret with Jennifer!

This is sobering advise to you sweet young things.

A classic case of "Been there, wish I haven't done that though!"

Flaunt it when you've got it.

Seriously! No one's gonna complain. Surely not the boys!


The female form is one of the most revered form EVER.

And guess what?

You've got one of it!

And if you aren't that young and tender any more, hell, so what?!

It's all begins and ends in the mind my sweet.

Don't throw it all away when you are still breathing.

Believe and ACT!

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SensUalicioUs Pictures!

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So You Think Flirting is a Bad Bad Thing?

Worried?

Fearful?

Apprehensive?

What if he thinks I'm easy?

Would that make me a loose woman?

Good heavens, of course not!

Banish those old fashioned and ridiculous thoughts this very second!

Just because you are flirting does not make you an indecent woman.

So long as you possess the skills you were meant to have, you will naturally have the power to adjust your KSG (Kick Ass Girl) voltage accordingly.

BUT

If you can't even call these skills your own, what good is it to worry yourself silly about what you don't have?

I know you might be thinking, I don't want him to think I'm hard up for men or worse, that I'm desperate.

That's not true. The trick is in HOW you do your KSG magic. The confidence you exude and along with it, that self love that you possess. It is an extremely attractive trait for a woman to have.

The man that you will want to be with is the one who can appreciate you being the woman who is not super needy and who can be a valuable contributor to the potential budding romance the two of you can enjoy.

Like what they say about sex, don't lie there like a dead fish. The same goes for flirting, romance and the whole works. Don't make the man do ALL the work!

Start battling those long eyelashes and get down to sexy work. Otherwise, you are really the bad sad thing!!!

Meanwhile, do check out Way Back Into Love (WBIL) if you want to enjoy a Happier, Healthier and more SensUal way of life!

A KSG Self Affirmation

It took me many painful years to accept myself as a KSG. Yes, I know it sounds rather pathetic and unbelievable. But it's true.

No doubt that it is the opposite of the more common lamentations of "I'm Not Good Enough." However, let me assure you that as shocking as it might seem, I have plenty of company on this side of my pasture.

My KSG journey began in my teenage years. Young, naive and full of insecurities about myself. I began to notice stares. Particularly from the opposite sex. I couldn't understand and there was no one available to shed light to my confusion.

You might doubt it but I had serious self esteem issues as a young girl. It was not entirely a picture perfect kind of family I had. Well, let's just say every family has its own dirty laundry. It made me grow up all closed up.

I recall my deep annoyance and anger every time I got these lingering glances from strange men. My then boyfriend always laughed whenever I say I would relish digging out those lusty eyeballs with a spoon. Yes, that was the extent of my anguish.

Years of modeling and dancing has thankfully returned me my self confidence. And equally important, the acceptance that these stares will be here to stay. And I began to enjoy that power I possessed. From being a woman. And being a confidence woman.

It is intoxicating. Like an extremely potent secret. You learn to ignore it when it served no useful purpose. Use it to your advantage when it's required to achieve a certain outcome. And to be discerning enough to know when to tune it down and when to go town with it.

Only after I have learnt to manage my KSG destiny, did I had the right frame of mind to look around and realise that many women out there would give an arm to have my sort of challenges! With a gift comes responsibility.

So now, I have a fervent wish to develop programs that can help women out there to enjoy the sort of challenges that tortured the 17 years old me! :)

Life was never meant to be challenge free,
and I wouldn't want that for you.
but i wish for life to bring to you the kind of challenges,
that will lift you up rather than bring you down.

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Fearing the Powerful; Fear the Flirts

I burst out laughing when I saw this amusing article on flirts. It was from the Prestige Singapore Magazine July edition. The caption screams: Shear justice Flirts Punished. It talks about how Prince Fahd bin Badr, a governor in northern Saudi Arabia punished men to flirt with women in public.

Guess the punishment? You get a free hair shave. Isn't that just so fun! As for the women? You will be punished if you wear make up or if you are not dressed "properly". Such is the power of flirting. How he fears the instruments of the art too.

Count your lucky stars if you do not live in Saudi Arabia. Then don't waste your talent in flirting. We all have it. And don't let your instruments of the art get rusty too.

Go out and do your thing!

Meanwhile, do check out Way Back Into Love (WBIL) if you want to enjoy a Happier, Healthier and more SensUal way of life!

Even Selling Ice Cream Requires Seduction

Magnum Commercial -
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t-UL9hwkCuA&NR=1


News Article on Eva Longoria's involvement with Magnum ice cream -
http://newpaper.asiaone.com/printfriendly/0,4139,170379,00.html

Needs more convincing to take up KSG Program? (You kidding me right?!)

Even ice cream needs seduction to boost up the bust size! (opps i mean sales volume).

You CANNOT afford not to embrace seduction skills and make it a part of you.

Those who master it (as you can see!) not only end up looking delicious, they also laugh their way to the bank as well. Wouldn't you love that?

I adore Eva. She is just plain hot! Period! When you look at her commercial on Youtube, take a quick glance at the comments by viewers. You'll get the drift...

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KSG Role Model #1- Evita Peron (Maria Eva Duarte)

"I am my own woman."

- Evita Peron

~~~~~~~~~~ SensUal Joy ~~~~~~~~~~

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Evita_Peron



Born out of wedlock, Eva Peron was nevertheless worshiped by all Argentina people in her time. They even tried to resurrect her after her death as a saint. Such were the depth of their devotion!

Evita has a fragile appearance, yet she win hearts with her mysterious aura. She was well known for her dress style and clearly a master in creating alluring illusions.

She was an unpredictable woman keeping everyone on their toes and yet she also knows when to pull back before she ventured too far off.

• How attractive is your dress style?
• Do you know how to play the "unpredictable" game?
• What precious lessons can you take from Evita?

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What Kind of A Kick Ass Girl (KSG) Are You?

"Every girl should use what Mother Nature gave her before Father Time takes it away."
- Dr. Laurence J. Peter
American Educator and Writer.

Isn't it so wonderful that we are all very different individuals with unique gifts and strengths?

• If you want to attract the man of your choice, shouldn't you first know thy sensUal self?
• What are your strengths?
• What is your kind ass girl (KSG) personality type?

No idea?

Then how are you gonna kick any cute tight buns out there my sexy goddess?

Here a clue to which KSG you might be:

1. GODDESS KSG
   

Trust me on this, all men dream to have a goddess of their own. To worship and to love. Are you goddess styled?

2. COMPANION KSG

They say that behind every great man a woman stands. Are you the sort of woman who will stand patiently behind your man?

3. SEX KITTEN KSG

Pretty woman, walking now the street. Every men STARES. Is that you?

4. COMPETITOR KSG

Men loves a competitive woman because they tend to be low maintenance and they find their independence sexy. Can you see yourself as one?

5. MOTHER KSG

According to Lawana Blackwell, for all the men's strength, they are sometimes like little children. Do you have an absolute passion to pamper and go all motherly on your man?

You might be able to see yourself in more than one of the categories. That is normal.

What you are looking for is the DOMINANT and then a SUB DOMINANT categories that you belong to. And only then can the real work begin.

Stay tuned for a complimentary and more comprehensive KSG Assessment Quiz.

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Enjoy!

The Siren Song

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Siren



I remember a time not too long ago when I would give the term "siren" a bad connotation. Thank God time and education has reversed it all for me. Now I am starting to appreciate the word, its history and what a privilege indeed if someone calls you a siren!

This of which I am certain that Mr Odysseus would have agreed after his enchanting encounter with the mythical Sirens of the sea.

To me, being a siren in modern day equates to being an attractive lady with a charming personality surrounded by a most mysterious and alluring aura.

Aura of such nature will have to come from within, a love for yourself that oozes out in an irresistible manner. We all have that precious quality within us. And I hope with all my heart you are hard at work honing it! :)

It has been said the a "siren song" is extremely tempting. However bad things will occur if you succumb to the temptation. Well, I like to think that if we are the siren giving out the siren song and we have good intentions, bad things does not necessary have to be the end result.

Whatever the case is, first things first,

1. Look into the mirror.
   
2. Take a good long look at yourself and say,

" From this moment on, I am a wonderful siren with a beautiful siren song to offer to the the man of my choice."

Say it with conviction.

And now?

Get down to work!

If you need a gentler approach, Way Back Into Love (WBIL) is strongly recommended!
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Who Says You Need To Be Thin To Be Sexy?

http://www.fabulousmag.co.uk/celebs/celebs_natasha_bedingfield_issue_011.php



Natasha Bedingfield, America's latest sweetheart just proved that you don't have to be of a standard size in order to be or to feel beautiful. Being sexy and feeling good about yourself begins first in your mind.

Seduce yourself first if you want to seduce the rest of the world. If you need to change your self belief, DO IT! If you need help, FIND IT!

First believe with every bit of your being and only then can your seduction magic become reality. Seduction has always been a way of life since the beginning of time. Eve has shown us our natural birthright since she seduced Adam with that delicious apple.

If you think of seduction as a dirty word and a horrible form of manipulation, I suggest you stop reading now. Because you have already deliberately closed the door to what could have been a meaningful way to enhance the quality of your life simply because you are a woman and you are well-informed.

However, Rome was not built overnight. Either can your inner seductress be lured out until you have decide to roll up your sleeves, show a little skin and get down to sexy work on yourself.

If you think that online coaching is a possible way to gently lure the sensUal kitten out, click here: Way Back Into Love

Exotic Dancers Excel More Than The Obvious

http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m0EIN/is_2008_June_24/ai_n27505859

"Dancing in topless clubs helps women become poised, self-confident and creative individuals who often go on to higher education and successful business careers."
- Judith Lynne Hanna
(PhD, a senior research scholar at the University of Maryland)

I came across this very interesting article when I was researching for KSG. I completely agree with what Ms Hanna has commented. We lived in a world where we often never questioned the general "truths".

One very convenient assumption we have is that strippers are good for nothings. They are always up to no good. And everything else along those lines. I may not know a lot of strippers but I have heard so many stories of "strippers made good."

You will be surprised at how focused some strippers can be. They are clear of their objectives and motives for being a stripper and they accomplished their goals with astonishing results without harming or hurting anyone. They could possibly be some of the smartest people you will ever come across.

Being a stripper requires you to be smart, ability to think on your feet, confident of your body and being a great conversationalist among many other things.

Aren't these some of the admirable character traits that some of us struggle with?

You don't need to go to the extreme of being a stripper to work on your confidence, learn to love your body or wow the opposite sex with your personality and conversational skills. KSG gives you the opportunity to achieve all these and more.

The question is not how, the question is your commitment and when.

Time and tide waits for no man (or woman).

There is no such thing as an unattractive woman, there are only lazy women. And I hope, I am not talking to one of them.

Mr In Between

I had a very interesting conversation with a guy friend last evening. He is a mutual friend whom I have met a couple of times. Just for fun and to ensure my men observation skills are still up to standard (yes, I admit I'm a workaholic), I decided to put myself to the test.

Everything that I deduced about him was accurate and he was smiling at my assessment. He is this rather attractive, tall and lanky guy. Always well dressed, says the right things AND keeps a distance.

Apparently it is because he is clearly aware that he is an ideal Mr In Between. However, knowing how most women are always looking for "the one" which is not something that he will be looking at in the near future, he decided that a cool exterior will be the safest way to avoid misunderstandings.

To me, I think it is a very considerate act from a man. This protects women who might be interested in him and is seeing him as a potential "the one".

From a man's point of view, you can see how this is actually to his disadvantage. Because he takes an upfront and honest approach, and not all women would be able to stomach such "in between" relationships, he has drastically decreased the pool of available women.

Still, I feel comforted that there still men who are aware that what they want which might not coincide with what most women want. And hence, they take a sensible approach to the situation while willingly accept the shortfall and disadvantages to the approach.

Kudos to men of such virtue..

Would you be willing to be with Mr In Between while looking for Mr Right?

Or do you think that if there is no destination, you wouldn't even be interested in a joyride?

Oh well, you decide.

Why The Kick Ass Series?

No, I don't hate men. On the contrary, I love men to bits. When I started SensUal Joy in Singapore, I quickly realized that the market is very small and we are perhaps well ahead of our time.

Then I developed Love Program so that ladies don't have to trouble their pretty head about what class to take next whenever they finished one style of exotic dance program. Love Program introduces them to the wonderful genre of exotic dance step by step.

Then I get emails from ladies all around the world who gets frustrated because they can't come for Bootcamp Live!/Maneater/Love Me/PolelicioUs Me (Live! Coaching) Either due to locality issues or budget constraints. The question "How can I reach out to these ladies?" was a constant relentless bouncing ball in my head.

That was when Love Program was given a new wing, Online Coaching. Jumpstart HHS (Happy, Healthy, SensUal) was born. This free program was meant to be the beginning of many great things for women.

Today, I am proud to say we have Way Back Into Love too to aid you in your self discovery journey as a beautiful woman IRREGARDLESS which part of the world you are at.

You would think I would stop here. Noooooo, the hyperactive brain refuses to rest. It then noticed that many of the clients are really shy and have trouble. Trouble to even hold a normal conversation with men in social settings!

Now, that is a great cause for concern. I can be the best lap dance teacher in the world and they can be the most amazing students. But if you can't even get a guy to step into your door, hey, what's the point?

I realized that more help is required. Many shy ladies are having the challenge of managing the outer social game. Again, the brain worked overtime to find a solution. No prizes for guessing, "I'm A Kick Ass Girl" was brought to life!

Special thanks to clients who have shared with me their problems. That was the only reason why I was inspired to create I'm A Kick Ass Girl Program (KSG). So that more ladies can go out and shout to the world with confidence exactly that! :)

To put it mildly, I am terribly excited about KSG. It is so gonna rock the world! *shake that sexy booty!*

No more hiding at home because you are dumbfounded whenever the cute guy smiles at you my sexy goddesses.

No more crying in the closet because you feel lonely and undesirable my sensUal kittens.

I will show you all the magical tricks and techniques in the world that you can learn and make it become a part of who you are;

the beautiful,

flirtatious and

absolutely desirable seductress!!!

That's right. That's YOU!

So come and join me in this exhilarating journey.

Put on some luxurious fabrics to show off that oh so delicious butt of yours because we are so going out to KICK SOME ASS BABY!

*wink*